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إِكْرَامُ الضَّيْفHonouring the guestikrām aḍ-ḍayf

Whoever comes through your door is honoured, and never made to feel like a burden.

إِكْرَامُ الضَّيْف

Ibrahim did not know who his guests were. He went quickly and quietly, and came back with the best he had 51:24-27.

From the Quran

فَرَاغَ إِلَىٰ أَهْلِهِ فَجَاءَ بِعِجْلٍ سَمِينٍ ۝ فَقَرَّبَهُ إِلَيْهِمْ قَالَ أَلَا تَأْكُلُونَ

Then he slipped away to his family and came back with a fat calf, and placed it near them. He said: "Will you not eat?" Quran 51:26-27

From the Prophet ﷺ

«وَمَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الآخِرِ فَلْيُكْرِمْ ضَيْفَهُ»

And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honour his guest. Sahih al-Bukhari 6018

Seen in the prophets

لوطLut

When his guests were threatened, Lut stood between them and the crowd: "Fear Allah, and do not disgrace me with my guests" 11:78. Their honour was his honour.

Quran 11:78

What it is not

Honouring a guest is not showing off. Ibrahim brought what he had, quickly, and asked them to eat. The point is the guest, not the table.

Today, in practice

  1. Offer water before anything else.

  2. Put your phone away while a guest is in the room.

  3. Walk your guest to the door when they leave.

Small, practical steps. This is friendly advice, not a ruling.

Your manner for the week

إِكْرَامُ الضَّيْف Honouring the guest

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Their moments

Sources on this page

Quran 11:69Quran 11:78Quran 51:24-27Quran 51:26-27Sahih al-Bukhari 3Sahih al-Bukhari 6018

Quran meanings are given in plain English, close to the Arabic. Hadith numbers follow sunnah.com.